The trim is hard to run manually when the horizontal stab is biased aircraft nose down, the elevator is deflected aircraft nose up to compensate, and the aircraft flying at high indicated airspeed, that combination making for high loads on the stab jackscrew and following nut. The answer once you've let things evolve to that point is to either rollercoaster the airplane (to periodically unload the elevator and use those moments to manually trim), to take the thrust down and thereby reduce indicated airspeed and trim manually, or to power the electric trim and run the trim nose up electrically.
I don't think that it's a distinct or Max-specific flaw. It's a matter of aerodynamics. While I'm generally critical of the Ethiopian crew, I find it hard to fault the crew for not inventing the rollercoaster solution on the fly [so to speak]. (In particular their decision to leave the engines at a very high thrusts is odd, but most disconcerting is the decision to turn the stab trim back on, momentarily command aircraft nose up trim, and then [inexplicably] leave the stab trim powered but without commanding continued aircraft nose up trim by thumb switch. I think that decision is very hard to understand.)