Interestingly enough, one of the things we got to do in the EE power lab was to synch generators up to the grid. It's actually possible to do with three light bulbs, one for each phase. When there is a difference in phase between your generator and the grid, the bulbs will illuminate proportionally to the phase difference. As you bring your generator into sync, the bulbs go dark, and then you can transfer your generator onto the grid.
Crude, to be sure, but it was a great visual introduction into phase synchronization.