Go in the same room and turn on another large load (vacuum cleaner, toaster...) while watching the lights.
The lights only got a bit less darker. What does this tell you?
I was hoping it would tell you something. The lights will always dim when loads are switched, you're not going to get around that. It has more to do with your wiring than with the device connected to it.
Try slowing down your PWM a bit to see if it makes it less annoying. Or speed it up so you can't see the flicker, but then power dissipation in the switch will increase.
Yes I was already editing my first post when you already answered.
I followed the DIY reflow oven instructions here:
It uses PWM to turn on and off the power to the heater and has no soft-start or such, so yes, this makes the power jump up and down causing the flicker effect. This was my initial though also.
Changing the PWM would change the heating properties yes, but the oven is doing the reflow nice now and I'm afraid that changing PWM would make it not work on the reflow part. The flickering is not that annoying, I can turn some lights off or leave the room while reflowing, but I'm afraid of damaging other nearby more sensitive mains devices. Two laptop chargers already have started to act weird (laptops run in the lowest CPU speed when plugged and full power when on battery, 2 chargers, 2 laptops with same responses)
Would it help if the mains voltage is stored in some sort of cap or inductor?
I guess I could start a new thread on that instead of sidetracking it here.