Even worse than current flow in capacitors is the flow of holes in semiconductors. These behave like electrons with negative mass! Even more weird are phonons which knock electrons around and are quanta of crystal vibrations.
It's just convenient bookkeeping, though. Charge comes in quanta of electrons, so lack of charge has to come in quantities of lack of electrons...holes. It's like talking about negative money. We all know that simply means "debt", but it's more convenient to handle it in the same units as regular money because then you can do straightforward math to get a straightforward answer.
It's convenient to consider the changing electric field in a capacitor as "displacement current", because it puts it into the same units as regular current, and the resulting field is something that needs to be considered because it can do work....but that's just book keeping too. It's just a gimmic to get everything using the same units so that you can figure out where all of the energy goes. He should have called it something like "equivalent current" to make clear that it's not a real current, namely charge flux through a surface.
I guess it doesn't matter too much. It's useful to consider current flowing through a capacitor but thinking about it like that sets up an intuition that breaks down when you look too closely. Better to consider the real process and consciously choose when to simplify it. In my opinion...just my opinion.
Then again, I always do things "backwards". Whenever I tutor for programming, I don't start with "Hello World". I start with nuts and bolts explanations of gates, processors and things like that. Then I work my way up through memory and stored programs. By the time we get through that, assembly language seems rather tame. Then we hit higher level language and it's like, "Hey, this is no big deal...what's all the fuss?".