There is some good material in blog #186, but I found the recommendation of gold coated PCBs rather odd. Gold and solder are a horrible combination, because of gold embrittlement. Tiny amounts of gold can make normally malleable solder - both traditional and lead free solder - become brittle, and crack under thermal stress. This seems counter intuitive, as both the gold and solder are soft materials..... until you mix them.
If your PCBs are not subject to aggressive temperature cycling you will probably never have experienced PCB failures due to gold embrittlement. If you have worked heavily with power, and especially RF power, electronics you will know this as one of the major pitfalls for reliability. RFis worse because component makers love coating everything with gold, and experienced assemblers of RF power electronics go to considerable lengths to strip off all that gold before assembling their equipment.
Solder dissolves gold pretty well, so you can remove the gold from components, and leave a surface coated in solder, by dipping the parts in a solder bath. People typically use several solder baths, and dip the parts in sequence. When the first bath gets too polluted with gold you send its contents to a metal refiner, to extract the gold, and add a new bath of clean solder at the other end of the line.
A lot of cheap connectors have gold all over the contacts. You might notice the good ones only have gold on the contact end of the pins, and the end you solder to is supplied coated in something solder like (e.g. tin plated). I have seen a number of engineers complain about nasty connectors which aren't gold all over. Its actually the other way around.