You've probably already surmised that the 32 pins on the sides are for the grid electrodes, one for each line (each group of 8 are for a line of characters, 7 high + 1 underline), and the 90 (96?) pins on the top and bottom are for anodes, each anode is a vertical strip. The flex cable must be for a shift register that controls the anode drivers on the board epoxied into the middle of the sandwich. The four ceramic SIPs are grid drivers.
I'd suggest testing the KA-* KK* pins pairwise for resistance, those will be the filaments
One other idea: if there is a net that is common to a particular pin on each of the SIPs, and also goes over the flex cable, it must be the Vbb.