I was bitten by this issue today, and the parts were of known provenance, bought from authorized distributors. Upon investigation, it was clear that this is not a case of counterfeit parts etc; many (all?) manufacturers are supplying TO-220 parts with thinner tabs now, by default, and have re-designated the old thicker tabbed parts to other order codes. For example, ST's version of the thicker tabbed 7805 is now L7805CV-DG, and if you just order L7805CV, you get the one with a thin tab.