It's not a reactive power, but energy of reactive components. This is in the numerator. And it should be the sum.
My textbook definitely says Q = reactive power/real power for both series and parallel circuits. I know there are other definitions for Q involving bandwidth and other factors, but the one I gave is one of the correct definitions.
The sum of the reactive power will not work for resonant circuits because both L and C store and release the same energy at the same rate. The total energy is constant at resonance and is equal to the maximum energy stored in either L or C. Therefore, the best method I can think of is to use the maximum power of whatever L or C component stores more energy. For off resonant series circuits, C energy storage will predominate at the lower than resonant frequency, and L at the above resonant frequency. Vice-versa for parallel resonant circuits.
All the texts and literature I have come across want to pontificate about the Q at resonance, and don't cover any method of determining the Q of off resonant frequencies. When it comes down to it, what is Q good for other than determining the characteristics of resonant circuits? I will keep alert for any information about Q at off resonant frequencies.
Ratch