Also, why are these female-female couplers so expensive? ;-)
The Amtech business strategy: "Let's make our product very hard to buy and then ship it in a container that requires hours of hunting down accessories on AliExpress to actually get something out"
I'm beginning to think the best strategy here is to buy a selection of tips, a few syringes and a luer lock coupler. Probably quite OK for the flux but I'm a bit worries about the thicker solder paste.
Regarding the couplers, my guess is that they're not all that common, so no small quantities are available (sold by the case = too expensive for our purposes). And although the stainless steel model is expensive initially (~$9 shipped to you), it's not disposable so you only have to purchase the one. It does require cleaning though (bit of a PITA, but livable IMHO).
Not sure why genuine Amtech products are so hard to find, but I've always avoided them due to this issue (almost certain I'd get a fake).
As a result, I've stuck with Kester RF741 flux (good stuff). Given your location, I'd think Henkel/Loctite products should be readily available to you.
The steel needles would be fine with the flux, but are much more difficult to use with solder paste. This is where the plastic conical tips come in handy as they're a LOT easier to push solder paste out (you don't have the bottleneck right at the Luer Lock tip you do with the metal ones).
So if you can get some 30ml syringes at a reasonable price, go for it. Just be sure to get the plastic conical tips for solder paste, and you'll be fine.
As per a dispenser, the Manual Syringe Gun seems to be the way to go (nice balance of cost/performance @ $30 shipped).