I am but a hobbyist with limited experience, so I don't want to seem presumptuous. But, I must say, practice is the key. I did my practice using some dated cell phone - Gen1 Gen2 working phones no one supports anymore.
Since those old phones are worthless, I can practice with disregard to destruction. I look for the tiny smd IC's, desoldering it and then solder the darn thing back on. In desoldering, I don't care because presumably I am removing something not working. In soldering, I put a time limit - my hot iron cannot be in contact with the smd-legs exceeding one second. I've redone the same chip so many times and at times so poorly that I melt legs completely off the SMD, but I got better. After a 2 to 4 weeks of may be 2-4 hours per week of practicing (and with a lot of leg-less SMDs). I managed to resolder on IC's within my 1 second per-touch limit most of the time. I did a couple of real repair work on tiny (0.5mm pitch) SMD. My first two attempt were both successful - very lucky.
I am no expert, but having done that, now tiny SMD's are not so intimidating to me anymore. I repair/rework SMDs rather freely these days. I still kill chips now and again, but more often than not, I get it soldered/desoldered properly.
Those tiny things, I believe, is a matter of overcoming the intimidation factor. Go to it - and after a while, it won't be so intimidating anymore.