I took a few days off, read a bunch of stuff, redrew the clock generator circuit from yet another version of the datasheet (the Hitachi datasheet for the HD6809E), and rebuilt the circuit on a different breadboard. Well, either my old circuit was flawed, or the old breadboard was faulty (or both. It's entirely possible that both are true), but the new circuit on the new breadboard works perfectly!
I went directly from there to hooking up the 68B09E, hard-wiring a NOP (hex 12) on the data bus, wiring some LEDs to the upper address lines, and connecting a nicely debounced push-button to the RESET pin, I have managed to get the CPU to run its first program! (as evidenced by the uppermost three address line visibly flashing)
I'm so excited that it's just silly. Thanks to everyone (especially joeqsmith) for your advice and encouragement. This is such a great community, and I'm having so much fun.
attached are my notes with the redrawn schematic and circuit plan, the full circuit (with inverter and CPU), and the scope trace of the improved clock output (I think that's the Ecpu output, but it might be Q). Next stop, hooking up RAM, ROM, and a peripheral interface adapter (or two) for some switches and lights.