After seeing that I obviously won't go with this circuit as it is... but it is good that we came this far.
I put the current sink as you mentioned and yes it does ruin the supply for IDK reason.
In a panic, this is what I came with as a solution:
Suggestion 1: Using 7660.
I found it on JLCPCB supplier (
https://lcsc.com/product-detail/PMIC-AC-DC-Converters_HTC_TJ7660D_TJ7660D_C126092.html) so they can deliver it with the PCB itself.
We could hook the negative of 12v supply to ground which in turns will eliminate all these peaks of noise as I tested. However, we use a simple resistor divider to get approx. 5v or so then feed it to 7660 to get -5v which becomes our negative rail.
I think this is very simple if it does not introduce anything else. I knew about this all along but I didn't want to use 7660 since it is not so available to others (even for me now xD).
We can simulate the -5v supply easily by making a 5v supply with its positive to ground and its negative is -5v. As for the LED I removed it and installed the 100 Ohm back... Now if i want it I can connect it anywhere else like on the main 12v rail with proper resistor dividers and so on.
If we want an extra cost we would use 5v linear regulator 7805 to give 5v and power the LED while at the same time give 5v to 7660.
I know 7660 charge pump has switching but I don't think it will affect us here, or will it?
How about this?
Suggestion 2: use another LM317
or better yet 7805 hooked to 12v and the negative of 5v regulator is hooked to ground not to negative rail. Here we can avoid the negative rail all together.
Suggestion 3: op-amp rail splitter
this is not even a solution to this design but rather a completely new way to avoid the dodgy negative rail of ours, perhaps it is the cause of all this. I didn't build this yet.
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I saw from other designs that they use suggestion 1 since it gives them 12v full voltage while having also -5. Getting that extra IC maybe worth it if the design is working and all these problems are solved. Scullcom design uses suggestion 1.
If you go with this design without resolving the issue with the Vbe multiplier and the meter supply current, I'm washing my hands of this whole project and ignoring this topic.
Don't give up on meeeee! I am trying also xD. Originally I wanted this to finish in a week or so but looks like it took a lot more. I saw Dave's project so simple, also the one from mjlorton so I thought I could do it similarly.
I am good at electronics but not too good, that is why you see me asking a lot in details. I work as an instrumentation planning engineer right now so it is a different field.
Looking forward to read you opinion about the suggestions above. I hope we can finish it soon.
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EDIT:
Suggestion 4: put the panel meter across 12v.
Meaning from positive (+9v) and negative rail (-3). This way it won't interfere in our dodgy negative rail and ground config.
However, I remembered that it must share a common ground with the measuring signal so this suggestion is bad... forget it.
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EDIT 2:
I tried different resistors and caps with 2n2222 circuit and yet it refuses to work! looks like suggestion 1 is the way to go. getting 7660 is doable and if we are to do so then we would get tl431 to replace lm317 if we want.
I need to read your opinion about suggestion 1, if it works or not.
I really want to finish the project xD. Don't you?