To add to what others have already said,
1. Grammar. Please type complete, succinct, unambiguous sentences.
2. NO Messaging "shorthand". An otherwise helpful contributor might not be help if he/she feels you are not professional enough in asking and responding.
3.Clarity Of Thought before posting. The most important of all. Please formulate, completely, what you would like post before posting.
Do not assume that others might have faced a similar situation. They might or might have not. Either way, even for them to help you they need to understand what you done. Mention explicitly what, where, how, why of your predicament.
4. Respond back. So that those who spent their time trying to help you, wont feel they have done it pointlessly.